How I Found Mentors as a Lost 25-Year-Old (and You Can Too)

One of the hardest things to come to terms with is exactly what Taylor says in Nothing New : "How can someone know everything at 18 but nothing at 22?" That’s how I felt. In high school, I had direction. I had a plan. I knew what I was doing, or at least I thought I did. But somewhere along the line, life got too big to manage. There were challenges I couldn’t have imagined—curveballs that threw me off track, knocked the air out of my lungs, and left me thinking, Wait… what happened? Eventually, you find your way back to yourself. You brush off the dirt, squint into the sunlight, and start walking again. Maybe you don’t know exactly where you’re going, but you start to get a feeling for it. A hunch. A direction. So what do you do at 25 when you realise… ✨ You’ve never actually had a proper mentor in your life? ✨ You leave the Shire and go in search of adventure. That’s exactly what I did. I went looking for mentors in every possible way I could. I wanted some...